Sue Wintgens - Transforming relationships

5 BEST REASONS to join Hedy and Yumi in Chesham, UK

We are writing to you in anticipation of our Adventure In Intimacy workshop for couples in Chesham, UK on 23-25 June 2017. 
Josh Gressel, PhD, who organized our Monterey, California couples workshop for 12 years, has a very unique perspective on the value of the workshop. From a letter he wrote, here are the 5 best reasons for which he encourages his community of couples to attend the workshop: “I’m a big believer in what this workshop has to offer for the following reasons:
1) Theory: The explanations provided in this workshop for why it’s so much easier to fall in love than it is to stay in love are the deepest and most meaningful I’m aware of. The workshop is based on Imago relationship theory. Hedy and Yumi have distilled it down to its essence and have made the theory come alive in their own relationship and in their work in the world. Through their lectures, stories and their demonstrations you will “get it” in a way you won’t be able to out of a book or in a therapist’s office (including mine).
2) Methodology: You will learn a set of portable skills, meaning you will be able to take what you learn in this workshop and if you choose to, continue this work on your own. My wife and I attended the first California workshop in 2004 and have been using the dialog process you will learn on a weekly basis ever since. It has transformed our relationship from a good one to a flourishing one. It is like anything else in life, whether it’s the gym or dental hygiene: if you do it (work out, floss, etc.) it works. If you don’t, it will be a nice memory. But it isn’t rocket science and you can make this work for you.
3) Group synergy: Most of us haven’t been exposed to the power of a group at its best. This weekend can be an experience of that. For starters, most couples are reluctant to share their wrinkles in public. Let me reassure you that you do not need to say a word the entire workshop and you will get a tremendous amount just by watching. Because of the safety that is created, there will be couples who will share, and when you see that rather than being diminished by being vulnerable you gain strength, and that a momentum of honesty gets started that builds throughout the weekend, you will have a taste of what it can be like to be in a community of couples committed to conscious relationship. It’s a very powerful experience.
4) Watching a master: Hedy Schleifer is one of the best couple’s therapists I have ever witnessed. I tell people that for me, a couple’s therapist, it is akin to a golf player getting to watch Tiger Woods or a violinist getting to listen to Yitzhak Perlman live. You will see what is possible with relationships when all the ingredients are in place.
5) Your relationship: At the very least, spending three days with your partner paying attention to each other, away from your daily grind, will remind you of why you got together in the first place and why you’re still together.

Thanks for taking the time, if you’ve read down this far. Even if you can’t come, please share this workshop with someone you think might benefit from this.

We look forward to seeing you on 23-25 June 2017 in Chesham, UK.

With warm regards and our very best wishes for a splendid 2017,
Hedy and Yumi

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